Now I Understand Why the Forbidden Fruit Is Always the Sweetest: The Ugly Side of Trending

Lessons from Bianca Censori & Onijah Robinson

I sometimes wonder—when Eve reached for that fruit, what was she really thinking? Was it the curiosity? The temptation of something she was told she couldn’t have? The thrill of stepping into the unknown? 

Her one choice altered the course of history, drumming the entire universe into a rhythm of consequences. And yet, here we are, thousands of years later, still making choices that spiral into chaos. You’d think we’d know better. After all, we claim to be more civilized, more enlightened. 

But somehow, the forbidden fruit still tastes the sweetest.

Bianca Censori and Onijah Robinson are proof that in the digital age, we haven’t learned much. One walked almost naked next to her fully clothed husband while the world debated whether it was art, control, or humiliation. The other crossed continents for love, only to demand a six-figure payout when reality hit. 

And what did the world do? It watched, it commented, it shared, it laughed. 

Because trending is the new forbidden fruit. 

But just like Eve, once you take a bite, you can’t undo the consequences. 

When Trending Becomes a Trap

Bianca Censori: The Woman Who Walked Naked While the World Watched

People say Bianca Censori is being controlled, manipulated by Kanye, or part of some humiliation ritual. Maybe. Maybe not. 

But here’s what’s undeniable: she chose  to do it. 

She had a coat. She took it off. 

Maybe it was for art. Maybe it was for attention. Maybe it was because we live in a world where being talked about—even in mockery—is better than being ignored. 

But when your choice becomes a spectacle, can you still say it was truly yours? 

In marketing, as in life, not all exposure is good exposure. The internet has a way of stripping you down—literally and figuratively—until you become a character in your own story, and everyone but you gets to write the script. 

Was it fashion? Or was it just another reminder that to trend is to be consumed? 

Onijah Robinson: When Love Turns Into a Public Spectacle

Then there’s Onijah. A woman so sure of love, she flew across the world for it. 

We’ve all been there in some way. Blinded by passion. Convinced this time is different. But not all of us held press conferences demanding $100,000 when it went wrong. 

Her story played out like a Netflix drama: 

  •  Meets younger man online. 
  •  Flies to Pakistan to marry him. 
  •  His family takes him and runs. 
  •  She demands money from the government as compensation for heartbreak. 

And while she stood in the streets of Karachi, making her demands, the world watched. 

Was she bold? Delusional? Desperate? Maybe all of the above. But one thing is clear—*she trended.* 

The cost? 

  •  A global spectacle. 
  •  A deep dive into her mental health. 
  •  A son revealing her struggles to the world. 
  •  A psychiatric evaluation in a foreign country. 

What started as love became a meme. 

Trending didn’t bring her happiness. It didn’t bring her Memon. It just turned her into content—consumed, laughed at, analyzed, and eventually forgotten when the next viral moment came along. 

Why Do We Keep Eating the Forbidden Fruit?

Why do we keep making choices that we know will lead to destruction? 

There’s a psychological pull to the forbidden—a thrill in doing what you “shouldn’t” do. That’s why people: 

  •  Chase scandalous attention. 
  •  Make bold statements they don’t fully understand. 
  •  Strip down (figuratively or literally) for the clicks. 

It’s the Forbidden Fruit Effect: the more society tells us don’t do it, the more we want to do it. 

And social media? It’s the perfect Garden of Eden—filled with temptations that look like opportunities. 

But what happens when the attention fades?

The Ugly Side of Viral Fame

There’s this lie that trending equals success. That if you go viral, you’ve won* 

  1.  Ask Pepsi—who had to pull their Kendall Jenner ad after trending for all the wrong reasons. 
  2.  Ask every influencer who’s gone viral for a scandal they’ll never outrun. 
  3.  Ask Onijah Robinson—who went from a hopeful bride to a global spectacle in a matter of weeks. 

The truth? Viral moments fade. But the internet never forgets.

So before you chase trends, ask yourself: 

Do I want attention? Or do I want authority? 

Do I want virality? Or do I want value? 

 

Because once you take a bite of the forbidden fruit, you don’t get to decide how the world will digest it.